Support

Support is…​

• Building understanding
• Sensitivity
• Empathy
  
• Listening
• Including
• Initiating contact
• Following through
  
• Continuing to reach out

Support is not…

• Silence
• Suggestions
  • Have you tried…?
  • You should…
  • Why don't you just...?
• Dismissive clichés
  • You’re lucky! Take one of mine. Wish I had your freedom.
• Stereotypes
  • Cat lady, spinster, etc.
• Leaving non-parents out...of family-focused plans, conversations, celebrations, etc.